Hampshire EFT

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Susan Cowe Miller
Healing Health Holistically. Release and relieve effects of stress and trauma from mind and body.
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Women 50+ struggling with stress

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Today’s focus: Are you a mother whose children are grown up, have left home and you don’t feel needed anymore?

For many women this is the time of life when you may have planned to live dreams, go on new adventures, take up a hobby , change direction professionally.But the best laid plans can become lost or forgotten.

Stress triggers in women 50+ is a subject often discussed and can be fraught with anxiety for several reasons. Feelings of sadness and loss as children become more independent or leave home can be painfully real. The empty nest syndrome is potentially a major stress trigger for parents and arguably more women can struggle with this problem.

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Susan Cowe Miller: A Talk-EFT and Matrix ReImprinting

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Sharing my story and the work I love

Presenting an EFT and Matrix ReImprinting Talk at Suzy Miller’s Divorce Retreat.

The audience appreciated the reality that

  • life can be very challenging and stressful
  • it’s great to have an extra helping hand

EFT Tapping gives that extra hand, it facilitates

  • a shift in energy; how you feel
  • a space for calm
  • control over deep and debilitating emotions
  • less overwhelm in turbulent times

Matrix ReImprinting gives a new, fresher reality; you no longer run an old story or trauma.

Contact me for a chat: M: 07917 680967

Email: susan@hampshire-eft.co.uk

Feeling physically unwell: Tapping Audio for dizziness

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Dancing in the breeze or gale

So, after feeling considerably unwell for a couple of weeks I can now report how things have progressed and I share my EFT Tapping Audio: Dizziness When Physically Unwell  I decided to practice some Self-Healing once my head felt less foggy. I did some simple EFT and was delighted with the results. Perhaps with hindsight, Overwhelm may have played a part in this bout of ill-health. Overwhelm comes in many, many guises and your body responds accordingly to that stress.

Please read Part One: When You Feel Physically Unwell

Recognise any of these Overwhelm traits?

  • You cram much into your day
  • Life feels out of kilter
  • Spinning out of control
  • Blinkered to slowing and enjoying ‘The Now’
  • Keeping busy to shut out…….

Let’s just use those examples without delving into the great WHY you have allowed this successful Self-Sabotaging behaviour to manifest.

I still have remaining symptoms ( 2 or 3 weeks on) however a week into this I  decided to give EFT a go. Why wouldn’t I? I am a specialist in this area after all! And better late than never. I blame the debilitating dullness of my brain for the delay; the sensations I felt were an incredilbe band/weight of heaviness sitting in my head.

Best Advice (to Self)

Remember that EFT is effective in lowering feelings of stress

Key Point: With EFT I do not need to know your story, only how you feel

However I best explain that I may have Vertigo  or BPPV.  I still have it but it is more manageable. The first 2 days I threw up and felt particularly grim. Now I do the manoeuvers to try to move the crystals in the ear and I do not make sudden head movements. (I’m actually thinking of stopping the manoeuvers as they did not help this morning!) It can take some time to warm-up in the morning but I can go to the gym on a regular basis. Rushing up and out of my bed in the morning; I suspect may land me in a heap. #dramaqueen . However best not to make a melodrama out of this. (I think I wondered what on earth was going on when it started).

So there you have the story, but the story is not necessary. Speaking about the story is just that- speaking. The effect is still held within you at cellular body level; causing emotional imbalance and fodder for any Self-Sabotaging Inner Critic to go to town.

After one week of having this I was really cheesed off, especially with the band of fog and the heaviness sensation I had in my head for fairly long periods of the day.

I sat myself down and started Tapping and within 5  to 10 minutes the thick heaviness had gone. I thanked the Powers That Be and I can report that I was fairly stunned with the results. The band had evaporated and the fogginess gone.

Audio: EFT Routine to quieten Dizziness, and Visualisation

 

EFT Tapping at its most basic can be classed I suppose as a quick fix. But the quick fix allows you to feel better and get on with the normalitiy of the day whether pleasureable or grim. We are talking real world not magic. The magic comes when you work with a practitioner to question and work with the WHY and the HOW you respond to emotional stress. 

When you want to dig deeper please give me a ring for a chat.  Mobile: 07917 680967

Susan Cowe Miller is author of: Survive and Thrive after Trauma

 

When you feel physically unwell

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Allow light to filter in
Light filtering through

When you feel physically unwell: Physical and Emotional Overwhelm comes in many guises. (Part 1 early October).

The Problem

Overwhelm

Overwhelm, in my case being busy, busy and filling my day, shows itself in many guises and eventually will impact on physical health. So it’s my turn to have processed some emotional stuff and my body going into physical healing. I certainly don’t care for the physical ill health side of things. If packing as much into your day as you can is your thing, then just be prepared for your special cellular reaction to kick in – at some point.

Besides being a bit of a wimp and over worrying even though I do and should know better – here are some tips. You’ll know them but how clever are you at implementing them? I’ve been working today with a Meta Health practitioner, finally. Should have done it sooner! Her job is facilitate my healing. I will allow today’s session to process and do my little self-help routine; baby step changes are very powerful. 

What’s required?

KISS: Keep It Simple Stupid. (Apologies. This Self-Berating is not clever either but I am feeling fairly naff so it must go with the territory). But it doesn’t help and this is one area to practice in my little tasks/ lifestyle homework! 

It couldn’t be simpler folks.

  • I will be more observant and step in when I recognise that one of my default negative behaviours is having a wonderful time. Overwhelm #crammingmuchintomyday is a culprit.
  • I shall visualise my own chosen positive message; do this for a couple of weeks and hopefully be fairly well sorted with regards to what’s been going on. Time will tell. (This should be a blog. In a couple of weeks or so it will).
  • Working with your chosen professional therapist/practitioner when needs prevail, or you can’t do it all yourself, is a great and loving act of Self-Kindness.

Follow-up Post in a couple of weeks.

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