Women's Health

But the result  of the investigative operation showed that the foetus was embedded within my fallopian tube and had to be removed.
The Doctor’s reported that a full laparotomy had been necessary. An ectopic pregnancy was removed but the fallopian tube had been saved, and that was good.

I felt quietly stunned, and my body was sore. I remember a pain in my shoulders which related to the laparotomy.  

However, and for whatever unconscious reasons, because each of us is unique, each substantial life experience will shape or affect us at a subconscious level.
There are many different problems that you can struggle with relating to personal  reproductive and intimate health concerns.

When something does not happen as you want it to, disappointment can often be felt.
When your body doesn’t perform the way you hope and expect it to, a myriad of troublesome emotions are felt like anger, sadness, helplessness.

Panic, despair, confusion can run amok.

Negative beliefs get trapped in the subconscious and shape your story in how you respond to future life scenarios.
But that troublesome story you tell yourself can be changed, altered so that expectation and hope can rise again, and become your new reality.

Your medical experts, and thank God for them, can tidy you up after an operation, clear away the damage and have you fit once more.

But WHY did it happen in the first place, to you?

Are you aware that you are your best medicine?
You hold the answer to start the shift so that old emotional stressors and out of date beliefs can evaporate, leaving space for new………

I now have 2 grown up big children.

That’s why, when you invest in REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH RECOVERY, I help you to navigate the root cause discovery of what this reproductive or intimate health problem is a manifestation of.

The WHY you have this issue.
Special launch price is £99. 
This price will not be repeated.  Grab your place now. (2 taken)
The full value is £499.
When testimonials are collected the price increases.

Please contact me for full details of this special introductory offer. Mobile: 07917 680967

Reproductive Health Recovery   

….for women who struggle with fertility, reproductive or intimate health disorders and are ready to find the cause of the problem.
You seek strategies to apply immediately to relieve the symptom and a plan of action on how you can remove the problem.

You want to do this so that you no longer  

• feel less of a woman
• have regret dominating day to day life
• require exploratory medical procedures or operations.

You want to find out

WHY you have this physical health symptom because it plays such a key role in your emotional and physical wellbeing. You have an understanding that you can take more responsibility in managing your health.

Maybe you have struggled with the devastation and distress of:

• Repeated miscarriage 
• Ectopic pregnancy
• The resentment of unsuccessful attempts to conceive

Or perhaps these challenges have caused you angst

• Intimate health issues: eg Lichen Sclerosis, Genital Herpes
• Polycystic Ovary Syndrome or Polycystic Ovaries
• Perimenopause and menopause mood swings 

Maybe these problems affect your day to day life

Have you concerns that your loving relationship is controlled by your ticking biological clock and that your sex life is subliminally ruled by readings on a thermometer?
Is a chronic health condition regularly reappearing and these stressors affect your ability to confidently run your business, to do your job, to achieve promotion? 

Or perhaps you feel like previous clients who have felt like this 

• I don’t feel normal
• I feel like a freak
• I am less of a woman

When you invest in my Reproductive Health Recovery offer we are going to pinpoint why and how this health symptom impacts you. I will help you fix this problem so that you can be free from the symptom, and Root Cause Analysis is key.

HOW WE WILL WORK TOGETHER

STEP ONE: ROOT CAUSE ANALYSIS AUDIT

You will complete a detailed questionnaire to enable us to explore what this reproductive or intimate health problem is symbolic and a physical manifestation of.

STEP TWO: 
YOUR REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH RECOVERY 1:1 VIRTUAL CONSULTATION

During this powerful 1:1 Session of up to 75 minutes, you will uncover the root cause which presents itself in this condition or symptom, and you will explore strategies to implement the fastest short-term relief, to start to ease your symptom.
And together we will make a plan on how to heal the root cause for long term healing.

This opens the door to explore stressors, emotional blocks and beliefs, lifestyle and social influencers. You will know that there are changes which can be made.

Benefits you will take from the session

• A release from the disappointment and unfairness of believing that your body is letting you down
• Regain emotional calm in your work life balance
• Recapture that loving and satisfying relationship with your partner, without this big problem unsettling you

BONUSES

1. ROOT CAUSE RECOVERY PDF

• To journal the processing, learning and emotional impact of our session
• To recognise and identify patterns of behaviour and timing of symptoms flare-ups
• To create a better picture of what is going on regarding this health symptom 

2. ROOT CAUSE RECOVERY THERAPY

On completing the session and highlighting the root cause to your health problem, and having set in place a short term symptom reliever, you will have an EFT routine incorporating your specific needs and triggers which will help you to

• Manage your anxiety and lower strong feelings of emotional disharmony
• Focus on the positive change we have set in motion
• Become more aware and recognise when you are jumping into old behaviours

3. ROOT CAUSE RECOVERY HEALING CALL

• During the following 7 days you have had time to download and process our session, and to apply the symptom relieving therapy to start healing emotionally.
• We will discuss what steps can complete healing so that you understand and clearly appreciate that a process is required to move forward to be rid of this symptom.
• There is the opportunity for an additional short call with your partner present so that I can answer questions. Your partner can feel part of the process and we can move forward as a team to complete the emotional healing.

All this for £99.

 This promotion will not be available at this price again. Full Value Price (£499) 

#triggeralert miscarriage

I read the Duchess of Sussex’s Post from The New York Times, 25th November, where she writes movingly about her recent miscarriage.

The article shares the couple’s grief and highlights statistics around miscarriage which I am adding below.

Miscarriage is quite common, quoted as 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage, and that the number is probably higher because many women will be unaware that they have miscarried. It is also stated that the subject of miscarriage is fairly taboo; not discussed openly.

Nowadays I do believe that this is changing. Anguish and trauma associated with miscarriage are more commonly discussed, certainly within relevant forums.
Correctly emotional health is now being given equal standing alongside physical health.
This is a highly emotive subject and emotional support is needed.

Gone I hope are the days of the tougher supportive comments shared from those trying to be be compassionate but failing, simply because it IS such an emotive subject.

• Yes we all know we can TRY again

Some accept and believe that nature works to release an embryo which is not as it should be (difficult for me to word without causing distress to some)

• Anger, sadness, unfairness, trauma, disappointment; feelings which need stabilised and released to allow oneself to move on.

I know I was disappointed when I experienced a person crossing the street, assuming that I had not seen them, rather than stop and talk to me regarding a recent raw and personal trauma. And of course I forgive them. Most folks mean well.

If you’ve experienced miscarriage, a fertility or intimate health condition, I can help.

After much learning from others, experiencing the interaction with clients, hey Presto, here I am.
Each stage in my professional journey naturally shaped my ability to help others investigate troublesome health symptoms. What grated and didn’t sit right got panned and Divine timing helped with everything else.
What is meant to be…..

It was over Sunday breakfast chatting with Herb that I somehow was taken to thinking about Tommy Cooper,(it came from discussing boiled eggs!) and he remembered seeing Tommy die on stage on TV.
It was his time.
We discussed the statement, ‘When your time is up, it’s up.’
And that led me to thinking about the health glitches I had experienced when trying to conceive; and intimate health stuff which later presented.

We all have preconceived ideas around certain health and life scenarios.
Why? Because they have been locked into our subconscious. We have all heard parents, family, or even teachers drop the nuggets which we have chosen to inadvertently store. They shape our landscape and can be very influential in how we wander through life.

But going back to the pregnancy issue, well I could write a book on that.
Suffice to say that I spent maybe 4 years trying to conceive.
My first husband and I were in Qatar in the early 1980s and all my Fertility investigations went on over there.

I, for some reason hoped my husband was to blame and a little sperm power enhancing might be the easy answer.
But no, I had stuff going on.

One test I had I will never forget was to flush my fallopian tubes- the memory is hazy because it was horrendous. But I think it was to blow, clean out the tubes.
I took an hour off a school day and said I’d be back. The joys of naivety.
My excellent Consultant (was not doing the procedure I found out, and his 2nd in charge, WTF), did the job.
Midway through the procedure I was almost screaming for a bottle of whisky, in a Moslem hospital.

‘It sounds a bit like a D&C without the anesthetic,’ was a comment from one of the lovely Irish nurses we socialised with in Doha when I reported my experience.

This debacle seemed to be partly, in my opinion, why I then experienced an Ectopic Pregnancy a few months later.
But, IMPORTANT POINT: my training and learning as a Lifestyle Prescriptions® Life Coach, (30 years on), has opened up a pinpoint Mind, Body Connection to why at a subconscious level, many women have an ectopic pregnancy. When I first discovered this, I could certainly relate to that possibility.

After the Ectopic Pregnancy when my wonderful Consultant, Mustafa Kleida saved my blocked tube, I did conceive within the next 6 months. My son was born by Caesarean Section. I did not dilate.

Again there is Mind, Body connection running amok here. I was not one of those ‘too posh to push’, rather more fearful of the birthing process and was just stuck at 5cms. It was not going to happen.
My mother had problems delivering me. I should have been a Caesarean birth but my mother tried to have a home delivery, and I had trouble emerging from the birth canal.
However It is not set in stone that just because your mother had ‘problems’ in childbirth that you will too.

Matrix Birth ReImprinting is excellent in dispelling birth anxieties.
If you have questions you keep asking yourself about WHY your body appears to fail you, DM for details of my £99 ‘Women’s Reproductive and Intimate Health Recovery Session’ soon to be available.