Hampshire EFT

Healing Health Holistically

Susan Cowe Miller
Healing Health Holistically. Release and relieve effects of stress and trauma from mind and body.
Call Susan: 07917 680967

Women's Health

My pregnancy journey, and have times changed?

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If you require procedures to help achieve pregnancy, you need to give it your best effort and be strong physically and emotionally. An organ, mind, brain experience.
In the summer of 1984, after my Ectopic Pregnancy my 1st husband and I realized that getting pregnant was not a given. 

We were living in Doha, Qatar, earning the big bucks and life was good.  We both wanted to know what the prognosis was regarding having children, and what we might decide if the prognosis was less than positive.

I did not want to spend the next 10 years waiting every month, to see if……

We had had the discussions together.
Would we consider adopting if I could not conceive?
Would we look into artificial insemination; test tube babies?
Would we make other plans to look at life through different eyes?

This is a situation which tests relationships.
We were not yet tested but wanted to find out possibilities.
I researched to find some answers. Who could help us? Not that easy in those days.
(Keeping in touch with family was by letter, maybe a couple of times a month).

Now, this was the infancy of Test Tube babies.
The days when Dr Robert Winston, Hammersmith Hospital and Prof. Ian Craft at Cromwell Hospital in London, were part of the forefront of In-Vitro Fertilizations (IVF).
I wrote to them and got a warmer response from Ian Craft establishment, so I asked for the exploratory operation.

Our Contract in Doha gave us one month’s holiday. We had 2 weeks in Greece and did the exploratory procedures in London afterwards.

I must add that when we walked into the Cromwell Hospital it was an opulent place. Full of many people from all over the world, The Commonwealth.
The money machines were a plenty and it was amazing and strange at the same time.

The treatment I received, and the Laparoscopy were seamless, professional, and highly valuable.
Dr Craft who performed my procedure explained to me that my tubes were viable, thanks to the excellent work of my Specialist in Doha.
My Doha Consultant was Dr Mustafa Kleida (to whom I am deeply grateful). A Sudanese man who trained at Hammersmith Hospital. The ectopic pregnancy operation had been carried out in the original Doha Women’s Hospital.
Dr Kleida saved my right tube. 
I was in intensive care for several days after the operation.
I had a dead cockroach under my bed.
I say this because there are other stories I could add which might seem to undermine the excellent care I received.
All would be narrow minded and not of value.

Here is some useful detail.
Dr. Craft asked me if I had ever had a miscarriage or an abortion because he said that my cervix looked to be potentially, compromised.
That can lead to miscarriage; the loss of a baby at around twenty weeks.

I was unaware of experiencing an early miscarriage and had not had an abortion.

We left the Cromwell Hospital with positive and useful information.
We conceived our son 3 or 4 months later.
In the world of energy healing: the pressure was off, there was a relaxation, feelings of hope.
We were not living in dread or disappointment.
Our daughter arrived 22 months later.
The Organ, Mind, Brain connection; the whole body working together is an amazing piece of work.

Here are some facts relating to the success rate of IVF.
In the early ‘80s, Test Tube Babies was the phrase used back in the day.
Infertility is a big business, and it involves a big monetary investment.
Undergoing Fertility treatment of this kind is a big deal, with a huge emotional rollercoaster journey being undertaken.
The percentage success rate of IVF in the 1980s was at best I believe,25%, probably 20%. to 25%.

The Guardian in 2020, “In 2018, the average birth rate per embryo transferred for all IVF patients was 23% – but was 31% for under-35s, compared with less than 5% for patients 43 and above when using their own eggs.

Key Point: The success rate of (IVF) has not improved a great deal in over about 40 years.
So, it is worthwhile to undertake this big life adventure in a holistic manner.

Your body and your emotional stability need to be ready, so that you are in a confident, realistic and nurturing place.
This is a big deal for those undergoing this exceptional procedure.
There is a whole lot involved.
All the stress and expectations of

  • Dealing with the normal daily ups and downs of life.
  • Feeling vulnerable because emotions are all over the place.
  • Considering failure or blocking that possibility.

And there are 2 people involved in all of this, so relationship support, trust and love are essential too.

Perspective is required. If you are not in flow, and running undercurrents of anxiety and fear, then your body is not at its best and offering its most welcoming environment to achieve the successful outcome.

That is why your emotional health is equally important alongside all the wonderful procedures given to you by the ‘godlike people’, who can seem to offer you your heart’s desire.
You can empower and enable your body and your emotional strength to be a nurturing space, primed so that you are giving this procedure the best opportunity for success.

So, it is important to sort out stress, manage fears of potential  failure, so that you can live the best life afterwards regardless of the outcome.
And that’s why you  need to book a chat with me.
Find out how I can help you to be emotionally and physically ready, if IVF or (IUI) is being considered or going ahead.

A Fertility related Testimonial: Read
Reproductive Health Recovery offer: spaces available.

Call, DM, email: susan@hampshire-eft.co.uk. 

Living with Bulimia for 40 years

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I am not being dramatic when I say that Susan has saved my life….  nobody in my life knew how much I was struggling with an eating disorder and had been for nearly 40 years!!!

Over the years I had tried different types of therapy, some worked for a short time but unfortunately the Bulimia always crept back into my life and literally took over.  I purged every day and some days I purged morning to night, I felt completely disgusted with myself and I knew I had to do something about it.  I was extremely lucky that it didn’t affect my health apart from leaving me completely exhausted at the end of each day and consumed by the thoughts of food!  I was completely addicted to bingeing on food and then making myself sick.

I am not sure how I found Susan, I think it was a Facebook Post, I had a look round her website and read about her Healthy Lifestyle Coaching Programme, I took the plunge and messaged her.  She came back to me almost immediately and we arranged a phone call and I can honestly say she has helped me to completely change my life.


My sessions with Susan have provided me with the tools I needed to begin my climb, it has not been easy and with Susan’s coaching, support, encouragement over the past 9 months I am climbing that mountain, not sure I have reached the very top yet but I do feel I have the strength to do it.
My relationship with food has completely changed and I feel healthy, happy, energised and looking forward to what the future brings.


 After 40 years of living with an eating disorder my life, a horrible hidden secret! My life now has finally turned around.  Susan has helped me focus on myself and take control of my life and I am so much better, a better wife, a better mum, a happy, grateful person who no longer has a dark secret following me.

I truly can’t recommend Susan enough – if you are  struggling then please pick up the phone or message Susan, don’t leave it as long as I did, we all deserve to live the life we love and I realise now that counselling is a very good place to start on the road to a better life.
E.S. – living with bulimia for 40 years!!

My Healthy Lifestyle Programme

Polycystic Ovaries, Polycystic Ovary Syndrome

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The 3 symptoms, Ovarian Cysts, Polycystic Ovaries (PCO) Polycystic Ovary Syndrome PCOS, appear similar, but are not the same.
The information quoted comes from reliable online sources.

Quote: Many women have Ovarian Cysts at some point in their life. Most ovarian cysts present little or no discomfort and are harmless. The majority disappear without treatment within a few months.

Quote: The difference between Polycystic Ovaries and Ovarian Cysts is that polycystic ovaries result in substantial hormonal imbalance,  compared to ‘harmless’ ovarian cysts.
It is possible for women to have multiple ovarian cysts without suffering from PolyCystic Ovary Syndrome.
PCOS symptoms will usually present during teenage years.
Quote: Polycystic Ovary Syndrome: In order for a woman to be diagnosed with PCOS, she needs to have at least two of the following three features:

  • Irregular or lack of periods
  • High levels of male hormones
  • Polycystic ovaries, i.e. where ovaries are enlarged and contain several fluid-filled sacs (follicles)

Th exact cause of PCOS is unknown, but it can be a hereditary trait and related to abnormal hormone levels, including high levels of insulin. Although PCOS has no known cure, the symptoms of PCOS can be treated. Medication prescribed to treat symptoms such as irregular periods, infertility, excessive hair growth.

Those with PCOS with whom I have spoken or given questionnaires, were told by medical practitioners or after medical tests, that they have this health symptom.
The following comments are PCOS related and come from young women I interviewed and/or worked with.

“I started my period when I was 14 and they were irregular from the start – I could go months without one”.

“I was advised to go onto the pill.  I wasn’t even sexually active at that time but my main issue was the irregular periods and so this fixed that as well as regulating my hormones.  I was also offered some diabetes drug to sort out the insulin issue but I declined”.

“I thought I was a freak and felt very embarrassed by it”.

“The only thing I’ve ever blamed PCOS for was the difficulty to conceive.”

PCO related

“I had been on the Pill for years. After coming off the Pill I conceived straight away. My diagnosis of PCO came when trying for our 2nd child.”

PCOS is more complex, more going on.
PCO can be explored more straightforwardly.
Here is a link to read more : PCOS v PCO

As a Lifestyle Prescriptions® Health Coach, I offer a client insight and release from e.g. chronic health complaint. I assist clients to find and clear the Root Cause of the symptom.
I look at each client symptom separately. Together we unravel the WHY: the reason why this has presented. The reason which often leave doctors unable to state.

Lifestyle Prescriptions and Root Cause
You will probably have asked your medical doctor on occasion,
“Why do I have got this going on again?”
The doctor may say that they cannot be specific. They offer medicine and treatments, referral and so on.
I suggest that you hold many answers to the WHY. The medical route can still be investigated and followed, but it is within your power for your health symptom to not return.
Release the root cause.

Here’s what is going on
Stress, Beliefs, Emotions, Lifestyle and Social aspects play their part in your health problem, but Stress plays the very large part.There is a pattern of behaviour at work.  For self-healing to be initiated naturally, effectively and efficiently, this is what needs to happen:

  • Find the root cause to the health symptom.
  • Use the innate knowledge the client holds, relating to Stress, Emotions, Beliefs etc to unravel that root cause.
  • Work with specific modalities to release what no longer serves.

I help clients to pinpoint why and how a chronic reproductive or intimate health symptom impacts life and work.
 
The process is the same for most physical health symptoms.
I will help you to investigate and potentially fix this problem so that you can be free from the symptom and empowered to live life more fully.

Please contact me for a free chat if you find this article useful.
This works for any physical symptom; please ask.
(genetic health problems are not covered in this article).

Email: susan@hampshire-eft.co.uk   Or DM.
My website: Hampshire-EFT.co.uk
(I now have more availability on my Reproductive Health Recovery).

Reproductive Health Recovery questions answered

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Questions answered (and the tricky ones)

Is procrastination or self-sabotage stopping you from investing in my “Reproductive Health Recovery” special offer?
Embrace 2021 with hope and expectation. Own your health.
Questions you may have…..But to be clear: My offer is for you if:

·   You have yet to resolve gynaecological, reproductive, infertility health symptoms which cause emotional upheaval and distress.

·   You have received no satisfactory report to WHY your physical health problem has manifested-  ie. Unexplained Medical Symptoms.

  1. Bad timing: This is the busiest time of the year

Self-sabotage because you can invest today and begin your healing in January or February if preferred.
You’ve been fretting on this issue perhaps for years. You desire resolution.

Once the 8 remaining places have gone, the offer doesn’t repeat.

2.    How will your Reproductive Health Recovery package work when I’ve been seeing hospital doctors for ages? My problem has not been fixed and I am still searching for my answer.

You may have heard the phrase, “Medically Unexplained Symptoms”.

When there is no obvious reason why one becomes ill, cannot achieve pregnancy, miscarries, has a sore knee or a stomach problem….

Tests, exploratory procedures discover no good reason why something has taken place.

And that’s where I come in.

You have to be open to working energetically. Trust yourself.

3.    Will my hospital doctor or G.P. be ok if he finds out I’ve come to you?

My answer:Why are you asking that now?
Do you think your doctor minds if you give your body a relaxing massage?
Will he/she mind if you try Reflexology, Indian Head Massage, Journalling?     
I think not……

Self-sabotage and an example of your old belief system stepping in to stop you making progress.
Fear is lurking that you may be criticised, perhaps.

Procrastination……..this is a great offer to feel actively involved in your healing journey. ASK FOR FULL DETAILS

The medical help we all crave when health goes messy, can only do so much.
Each individual has a responsibility for their own health.

FACTS:

When you work with the subconscious (energy work), 95% of your brain is the unconscious brain. It offers answers, so it seems fairly sensible to utilise that wealth of information.

Your conscious, thinking brain only uses approx. 5%. capacity of your whole brain.
You have much more to work with using your subconscious.
This is Energetic Healing.

4.    It’s all too late and I feel despondent and unfulfilled

There comes a point with life’s disappointments, when you actually have to choose to stay forever unfulfilled, disappointed, angry, OR make a conscious decision to move on.

Guidance and support are often required to assist you to move through the process quicker so that you confidently choose to embrace….the rest of your life.

I help clients with this life decision too.

5. Conventional medicine is not the only route to achieve success with a health problem

You can work energetically and holistically to achieve health resolution.
There are many accounts of peoples’ health issues being resolved without medical intervention.
They have taken charge, found their own route and achieved improvement or a clearance of their physical health problem.

Belief, intention, precise planning and single minded behaviour can achieve optimum health.
Many know about Louise Hays and her health journey. She is a wonderful example and has encouraged countless numbers of people  to improve their body, mind and spirit.

Special Launch Price £99
Offer ends Friday 18th December, 2020

Ectopic pregnancy and reproductive problems

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I remember well when I lived and worked in Doha, Qatar, 1984 and wakened up in Intensive Care.
I felt confused. My first husband was sitting by my bed and explaining that, Yes, I had been pregnant.
I was in the hospital for ‘a procedure’ to explore why I was bleeding and also 2 weeks late with my period. Also, my bloods showed that something was amiss.
That had been my level of understanding.

But the result  of the investigative operation showed that the foetus was embedded within my fallopian tube and had to be removed.
The Doctor’s reported that a full laparotomy had been necessary. An ectopic pregnancy was removed but the fallopian tube had been saved, and that was good.

I felt quietly stunned, and my body was sore. I remember a pain in my shoulders which related to the laparotomy.  

However, and for whatever unconscious reasons, because each of us is unique, each substantial life experience will shape or affect us at a subconscious level.
There are many different problems that you can struggle with relating to personal  reproductive and intimate health concerns.

When something does not happen as you want it to, disappointment can often be felt.
When your body doesn’t perform the way you hope and expect it to, a myriad of troublesome emotions are felt like anger, sadness, helplessness.

Panic, despair, confusion can run amok.

Negative beliefs get trapped in the subconscious and shape your story in how you respond to future life scenarios.
But that troublesome story you tell yourself can be changed, altered so that expectation and hope can rise again, and become your new reality.

Your medical experts, and thank God for them, can tidy you up after an operation, clear away the damage and have you fit once more.

But WHY did it happen in the first place, to you?

Are you aware that you are your best medicine?
You hold the answer to start the shift so that old emotional stressors and out of date beliefs can evaporate, leaving space for new………

I now have 2 grown up big children.

That’s why, when you invest in REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH RECOVERY, I help you to navigate the root cause discovery of what this reproductive or intimate health problem is a manifestation of.

The WHY you have this issue.
Special launch price is £99. 
This price will not be repeated.  Grab your place now. (2 taken)
The full value is £499.
When testimonials are collected the price increases.

Please contact me for full details of this special introductory offer. Mobile: 07917 680967

Reproductive Health Recovery

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Reproductive Health Recovery   

….for women who struggle with fertility, reproductive or intimate health disorders and are ready to find the cause of the problem.
You seek strategies to apply immediately to relieve the symptom and a plan of action on how you can remove the problem.

You want to do this so that you no longer  

  • feel less of a woman
  • have regret dominating day to day life
  • require exploratory medical procedures or operations.

You want to find out

WHY you have this physical health symptom because it plays such a key role in your emotional and physical wellbeing. You have an understanding that you can take more responsibility in managing your health.


Maybe you have struggled with the devastation and distress of:

  • Repeated miscarriage 
  • Ectopic pregnancy
  • The resentment of unsuccessful attempts to conceive

Or perhaps these challenges have caused you angst

  • Intimate health issues: eg Lichen Sclerosis, Genital Herpes
  • Polycystic Ovary Syndrome or Polycystic Ovaries
  • Perimenopause and menopause mood swings 

Maybe these problems affect your day to day life

Have you concerns that your loving relationship is controlled by your ticking biological clock and that your sex life is subliminally ruled by readings on a thermometer?
Is a chronic health condition regularly reappearing and these stressors affect your ability to confidently run your business, to do your job, to achieve promotion? 

Or perhaps you feel like previous clients who have felt like this 

  • I don’t feel normal
  • I feel like a freak
  • I am less of a woman

When you invest in my Reproductive Health Recovery offer we are going to pinpoint why and how this health symptom impacts you. I will help you fix this problem so that you can be free from the symptom, and Root Cause Analysis is key.

HOW WE WILL WORK TOGETHER

STEP ONE: ROOT CAUSE ANALYSIS AUDIT

You will complete a detailed questionnaire to enable us to explore what this reproductive or intimate health problem is symbolic and a physical manifestation of.


STEP TWO: 
YOUR REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH RECOVERY 1:1 VIRTUAL CONSULTATION

During this powerful 1:1 Session of up to 75 minutes, you will uncover the root cause which presents itself in this condition or symptom, and you will explore strategies to implement the fastest short-term relief, to start to ease your symptom.
And together we will make a plan on how to heal the root cause for long term healing.

This opens the door to explore stressors, emotional blocks and beliefs, lifestyle and social influencers. You will know that there are changes which can be made.

Benefits you will take from the session

  • A release from the disappointment and unfairness of believing that your body is letting you down
  • Regain emotional calm in your work life balance
  • Recapture that loving and satisfying relationship with your partner, without this big problem unsettling you

BONUSES

1. ROOT CAUSE RECOVERY PDF

  • To journal the processing, learning and emotional impact of our session
  • To recognise and identify patterns of behaviour and timing of symptoms flare-ups
  • To create a better picture of what is going on regarding this health symptom 

2. ROOT CAUSE RECOVERY THERAPY

On completing the session and highlighting the root cause to your health problem, and having set in place a short term symptom reliever, you will have an EFT routine incorporating your specific needs and triggers which will help you to

  • Manage your anxiety and lower strong feelings of emotional disharmony
  • Focus on the positive change we have set in motion
  • Become more aware and recognise when you are jumping into old behaviours

3. ROOT CAUSE RECOVERY HEALING CALL

  • During the following 7 days you have had time to download and process our session, and to apply the symptom relieving therapy to start healing emotionally.
  • We will discuss what steps can complete healing so that you understand and clearly appreciate that a process is required to move forward to be rid of this symptom.
  • There is the opportunity for an additional short call with your partner present so that I can answer questions. Your partner can feel part of the process and we can move forward as a team to complete the emotional healing.

All this for £147.

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Full Value Price (£499)