It is my belief that some great and good people, or even just good people, call us to Seek Abundance, Seek Success, and Seek the Money. Great, fantastic, good, worth doing and let’s go all out for it! Maybe it is ‘ not quite the British Way’ and yes I know we don’t pat ourselves on the back nearly enough, but I object a little to what I consider to be valuable, missing information - ‘The Blocks to Success’. Possible ‘Blocks to Success’, need to be stated ‘upfront’. I believe stating that, is a fairer way to advertise the true possibility to attract Abundance, Success, The Money. We can indeed,all have the Abundance we deserve. POINT- If we feel we don’t deserve it, we won’t get it. So a pet niggle, and I Do believe I am a ‘glass half full girl!’ – Advertise for ‘Blocks to Success – Allow Abundance A Route In’ – Or – ‘Are You Ready for the Abundance?’ titles are more realistic, and less misleading to those who dearly would like the success, but keep coming up against obstacles. It is my belief that using EFT and Matrix ReImprinting, can most definitely clear blocks, and than if someone seeks abundance in aspects of their lives, they will get it – also using EFT and future ReImprinting!
June 22, 2011 I have probably, actively avoided listing and discussing, how EFT and Matrix can benefit in the emotional roller-coaster when dealing with bereavement. It is my belief that people react in different ways to death with pets and death with loved ones. I have asked many people about this, recently, and in the past, over glasses of wine etc. A loved pet has filled our emotional needs and ask very little, other than love, in return. Husbands,wives, partners family, friends etc, make demands, stretch us, cheat on us, abuse us, worry us, BUT they also love us, adore us, wish to please us, need us around, feel stunned when a loved one dies – What a list of mixed emotions – complex, natural, unsettling, ‘the way it is…’ I now feel I can offer EFT as a source of help in bereavement, because I have allowed myself to consider exactly, where it is helpful. A person can tap on dread, worry, fear, panic, overwhelm and other relevant feelings. A lowering of these feelings will, most definitely help a person deal with the realities of what is going on. What I do not suggest tapping on is the natural grief and pain. I am not even going to discuss that much, other than perhaps state the obvious – ‘ it’s much easier to block the pain when someone dies, rather than face how you might just feel.’ All I do know is that ‘blocking,’, especially long term , and with all emotional situations, has a heavy price to pay on your health, and presumably on your personality. But that needs more thought, perhaps. Next blog will be LIGHT!
15 June 2011
My darling George, the cat, needed to be put to sleep today, and the pain of doing it was enormous. The vet was really lovely, and I am thankful.
I have always known that I allow, or would allow myself to cry for the death of a pet, but seem frozen over the death of a person. I know, or assume , when the floodgates open, for the death of a pet, that it is also the release of pent up ‘stuff’ relating to other losses.
However, I was desperately upset over George. He was my friend for 17 years. I could tell him I loved him, and he was easy to love. Humans need so much more time and effort.
Earlier today before I took him to the vet, I did actually ‘tap’ to lower my state of panic, and I have to say it worked. I did wonder if it was appropriate to do it as this was a natural state to be in, over what I intuitively knew ‘was the end for George’
(I also have to say, being honest and allowing laughs to come come in, because tragedy and laughter sometimes go together quite naturally,) I managed to play the worst game of golf in 2 years. It is the club championships and I was truly ‘all over the place. ‘ I did try the positive, ‘I will do this for George’ , but it didn’t work!
But the tapping earlier did lower, my almost forced, panic about , my cat.
How EFT can help.
It is my belief that EFT is an extremely effective tool for stress relief. For minor and fairly small anxieties, if you use and understand the basics of EFT, then I can state that it will give relief. I also believe that medium to large anxieties quite simply need a specialist practitioner.
In relation to reactions to grief, someone may become depressed. The grief may be ‘the straw that broke the camel’s back.’ Someone else may resort to feelings of anger. If grief is not able to be dealt with, dare I say, naturally, as a natural progression, then these other feelings may take hold.
Today I felt the need to tap on my sadness. I considered the fact that I had treated George well and had made intuitive decisions, which were correct. He had not suffered greatly, and I was grateful that I had been able to help him correctly. I was certainly not happy but somehow gratified.
Feelings of loss were still strong, and my neighbours who loved him too, brought a hosta to place over his ‘plot’.
I expect it to get better each day. I will miss him so much but I am assuming that I will be able to deal with his passing, in a sensible way. That does remain to be seen.
Message- EFT is effective for aspects of bereavement – the worry, the anxiety, the fear. Once anxieties are lowered, things can be dealt with.
I would not however try to tap on the pain – I think, and this is only an opinion, the pain is a natural feeling when an emotional loss is experienced. It needs time. But, obsessing, anxiety, nervousness, fear of loss- I think these can be ‘tapped’ on.
In time I am going to matrix a memory of my George, an actual memory which I will Reimprint more strongly , stealing the Christmas day turkey. I would like that to be my memory picture.
Workshop -An opportunity to enjoy the summer holidays and beyond!
- Do you feel overwhelmed by ‘creepy crawlies’?
- Are you frightened of flying?
- Do you feel guilty about the thought of having the kids all summer?
- Do you worry about taking time off work to have a holiday?
- Is multi-tasking taking it’s toll?
I teach the technique of ‘tapping’ to clear stress, anxiety or fear.
Also discover how to ReImprint ‘an improved picture’ to free you from negative memories.
The result -Be amazed!
Then ready to enjoy the happiness, joy and success that can come your way!
Date : Saturday 18 June 2011. 10am till 1pm approx.
Venue Rowlands Castle (workshop 2-3 hours)
Limited No. of spaces –
25 May 2011 I’ve had an interesting week away, taking in my delightful nephew’s super wedding. The ceremony was outside on the stairway of the wedding venue. Earlier on during the morning of the wedding, in Dunbar, it was flooding and blowing a gale, at various times. Herb and I were meeting my sister for a coffee in the town beforehand and our trousers were soaked up to the knees due to the flash showers. We were all fairly sure that the ‘main’ people would opt for everything to be indoors. When we arrived in time for the ceremony I was delighted to find out that they had been brave enough to keep the ceremony outside. The weather still kept us wondering, BUT, it improved from the time of the ceremony, and then all day. All photos were taken outside and, it was amazing. I have to say I kept my affirmations about good weather going for quite a few days beforehand-, and it worked. I must work on – not being still surprised!
April 28 2011 I am recently back from a few days away, and good they were! A ‘Hen Do’ no less. But as I was travelling alone, (Herb not invited) I had time to ponder on the plane. A young woman sitting beside me looked at me with horror as the plane jumped a bit, through turbulence. I, in my droll way, said, ‘Well you’re sitting beside someone who works with fears like that.’ She only said that this was the kind of thing about flying that really freaked her, and left it at that. And so did I, but it made me think. My EFT and Matrix ReImprinting therapy works wonders with fears and phobias. The tapping lowers the anxiety levels, whilst really focussing on the statements used eg ‘This fear of flying ‘ [Read more…] about When a fear, overwhelms, eg phobias