November 9th 2010 Here is an example of how EFT is used – recently Herb and I [Bobbingwide] got ‘shafted’ by another company. We were both annoyed, upset, angry and frustrated. The point is, when using EFT, a client taps on the energy meridians and focusses. Now the reason I have been so blunt, is that the focus phrase is best, when it is the client’s words. If the client felt that they had been cheated, then ‘cheated’ would be used.
If the client thought they needed to be more polite and said to the practitioner, ‘I feel angry because someone has been very unfair to me,’ BUT, they really felt that the words in their head were considerably stronger, then those are the words that need to be used – to speed up and help the issue.
Of course with all areas of concern, it is not necessary to use very strong words, only the words which best describe, how, you feel.