An EFT resource to lower and manage stress whether acute or at irritation level. To make you feel better.
Before you start:
IMPORTANT: Stress and Anxiety is triggered by an event, specific words or a memory from the past. Tapping can and will lower stress levels. To discover the core reason for this limiting pattern of behaviour it is recommended you work with a qualified practitioner who can help you to clear the issue.
- Consider the issue
- Where do you feel it in your body?
- Describe the feeling. Is it e.g. sharp, squidgy, dull?
- Can you give it a colour?
- Has it a size?
Consider the issue, be specific and quite short in length, use words TRUE to you and change the words as necessary.
The first two rounds are very repetitive- then you can adapt to say what is true to you.
If you get stuck
You are not saying words which are true to the situation
You may need to be really specific eg say- this ‘irritating, blind panic, deep fear, this restricting nonsense’
I have a YouTube channel with various tapping routines. Anger, Fear and Anxiety, EFT and it’s benefits, and more.
Start tapping Karate Point 3 times
Even though I feel so stressed (or so frightened, or so fearful, or so shit scared about ………… (the issue)
(I accept myself as a good and kind person)
(change this to whatever you are comfortable with; you will know when you are ready to change it
Top of Head: This fear
Corner of Eye: This fear when I think about…….
Side of Eye: This deep fear
Under Eye: This deep anxiety that I feel in my ….. (where do you feel it in your body?)
Under Nose: This number -between 1 which is low to 10 – very high, stress in my…….
Under bottom Lip: This stress
Collar Bone: This stress and fear
Under Arm: This deep stress and fear
Then tap on Karate point and take a couple of deep breaths.
- Consider how you feel. Any change? Has the number gone up, down, stayed the same?
- Repeat Step 1 again. Make MINOR changes re What number, Where you feel it.
Step 2 After some deep breathing and considering how you now feel, continue with
K.P 3 times repeating
Even tho I have remaining (your word) fear of flying
I accept I am a good and decent person
Even tho I still have remaining stress and frustration, and I don’t want to!
I accept I am a good person and deserve to be calmer about flying
Even tho I have some remaining frustration and stress about…….
I choose to release it, and just let it go,
and I accept that I am a good and decent person..
TH: This remaining stress
CE: This Number ….? remaining fear
SE: This remaining horrible anxiety I feel in my…..
UE: This remaining deep anxiety
UN: This remaining deep fear
UL: This remaining fear I still feel
CB: I can choose to just let it go
UA: It is in my power to just let it go
TH: This fear serves me no purpose
CE: This remaining stress serves me no good purpose
SE: What good is it doing me? Am I self- sabotaging?
UE: I choose to release it
UN: I choose to let it go
UL: I choose to release it and let it go
CB: Gosh wouldn’t that be marvellous to just let it go?
UA: To feel free of all this stress
A couple of deep breaths
Consider how you feel. Better, worse, the same.
Keep repeating this basic Format –
5 or 10 minutes very regularly when acute
5 or 10 minutes twice a day
5 minutes once a day, when everything is GOOD
And this works best when you are thinking: ‘I don’t have time or I certainly can’t be bothered doing this!’
This works with any level of fear or pain so that you will ease an anxiety, stress, fear, guilt, sadness……….ANY emotion.
This can be done silently, privately and discreetly at meetings etc ( and you can say what you like) because you tap along finger points, or just one finger point
Survive and Thrive after Trauma by Susan Cowe
You Can Heal Your Life by Louise L. Hay
The Healing Power of EFT and energy psychology by David Feinstein, Donna Eden &Gary Craig