• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer
Hampshire EFT

Hampshire EFT

Healing Health Holistically

Susan Cowe Miller
Healing Health Holistically. Release and relieve effects of stress and trauma from mind and body.
Call Susan: 07917 680967
  • Home
  • About Susan
  • Products
    • Reproductive Health Recovery
    • Healthy Lifestyle Programme
    • Stop procrastinating, Start doing
    • I’m Ready to MOVE ON
    • My book: Survive and Thrive after Trauma
  • Blog
    • EFT
    • Physical pain and disease
    • Divorce
    • Video
  • Therapies
    • Physical Health Symptoms
    • Stress and Anxiety Management
      • More about EFT
    • Divorce and Relationships
    • Matrix Birth Reimprinting
    • Reiki
  • Consultations
    • Root Cause Analysis
    • One session EFT based therapy
    • EFT 3 sessions: £295
    • Six sessions: £555
    • VIP Half Day: £375
    • Whole Day: £695
  • Events
    • Talks and Workshops
  • Contact
  • Newsletter

Has your sex life changed during Lockdown?

May 14, 2020 by susan Leave a Comment

So, I was in the garden planting up this morning and thoughts popped into my head. One thought led to this Post and I have some questions.

I am posting to highlight a subject which I suspect is quietly questioned by women, and thought about more often by men: Sex.

The main question to ponder is: During Lockdown if you are living with a long term partner, or a relatively new partner, has your sex life changed for the better or for the worse?

I do not offer answers this Post offers is an opportunity for consideration. Has your sex life improved or is there room for discussion with your partner?

Points for consideration during this time of Lockdown

  1. Are you having more or less sex?
  2. Different sex or more meaningful sex?
  3. Do you talk about your sex life with each other?
  4. Has an increased sex life brought you closer to your partner?
  5. Because it’s been so long since the sex subject was discussed or initiated, does your lack of a sex life cause you stress?
  6. Do you dread the silent hints from your partner when there is pressure for more sex?
  7. Has sex been initiated by both of you or is it a one way initiation; one partner just complies?
  8. Has lack of sex been something that does not cause any concern?
  9.  Perhaps your sex life is just fine thank you!
  10. Are you worried or embarrassed to discuss sex? See Why You Won’t Talk About Sexual Issues With Your Partner

For those working as normal during Lockdown maybe all is well. Nothing has changed, you’re not looking for change. Or perhaps this post may highlight where change could be made.

If you are

  • In a convenient relationship and sex plays no part
  • In the unfortunate situation where your relationship has ended and you are awaiting a solution and sex plays no part
  • Divorced, single and looking for a relationship.
    Then I address the sex topic within my Home Study Programme ‘It’s Time to Move On‘.

The points I have raised can offer thought, action or a just leave well alone response. The topic of sex is something we Brits are not known to discuss with ease.
No-one knows what goes on behind closed doors? But relationships are important.

Age is irrelevant and of course men and woman can have different biological needs and each will respond  to the questions accordingly. But both parties deserve to be heard. It’s a two way deal. There will however be difficulty if there are unwritten or unspoken rules within a relationship. 
In my opinion that can be unhealthy. 

Key Point

Never assume your partner knows or remotely understands your silence, whatever the subject. It may work in your benefit to talk more.

Lockdown can be a timely opportunity  to give this important part of your relationship some time, thought  and energy. Are you content about the intimate part of your relationship?  

Benefits

From a positive outlook sex in a relationship can be good for the soul. It can make you feel better, happier and more able to get through the day.
Have the conversation with your partner if you want change, whatever that is. Or, smile, enjoy the feeling of ease and added benefits you sense as a couple from Lockdown.

Relationships

Relationships need work, difficult topics can be addressed. Speak with your partner. Balance and equality are key.

Imbalance brings in the negative feelings of unfairness, “I can’t speak up, I’m frightened, I’ve waited too long to discuss it”.
It is never too long to initiate discussion if you place great value on your relationship and are aware that complacency is not useful long term.
Stress and anxiety can affect your sex life.

Thank you for reading.

If this Post has triggered feelings of self-doubt, low self-esteem. Please ring 07917 680967 for a free chat. You are important and relationships are important too.

Susan is the author of Survive and Thrive after Trauma

Susan works with Stress and Anxiety and the Why the body presents chronic health symptoms

Related

Filed Under: Has your sex life changed during Lockdown Tagged With: lockdown, loving partners, relationships, self-confidence, sex-life, sex-life questionnaire, stress

Testimonial to help Overwhelm
Hello ladies(a private group) I've been meaning to put up a testimonial for Susan Cowe Miller for some time. I had some EFT sessions with her before the summer and they really helped me on my progressive journey through this thing we call life.
read more
Roberta Jerram
I recently experienced an EFT / Matrix Reimprinting session with Susan over the telephone and felt immediately put at ease by Susan's soothing voice and professionalism.
read more
Sheryl Andrews
I have to say that I was really impressed with the whole experience and left feeling like my whole emotional well being had shifted up a notch or two.
read more

Reader Interactions

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

You must be logged in to post a comment.

Primary Sidebar

Follow Susan Cowe Miller on TwitterFollow Susan Cowe Miller on FacebookFollow Susan Cowe Miller on LinkedInFollow Susan Cowe Miller on YouTube

Call Susan Cowe Miller

Tel: 02392 410090
Mobile: 07917 680967
Skype name: susan.cowe4
Rowlands Castle, Hampshire.

Buy My Book

Buy my book "Survive and Thrive after Trauma"

Recent Posts

  • Living with Bulimia for 40 years
  • Reproductive Health: Lichen Schlerosus
  • Polycystic Ovaries, Polycystic Ovary Syndrome
  • Being self-aware
  • Remember to be Grateful

Categories

Interviews

Radio Gorgeous Interview
Radio Solent interview
Roberta Jerram interviewing me for Giant Potential

Footer

Appointments

  • One session EFT based therapy
  • EFT 3 sessions: £295
  • Six sessions: £555
  • VIP Half Day: £375
  • Whole Day: £695
  • Healthy Lifestyle Programme
  • Stop procrastinating, Start doing
  • I’m Ready to Move On

Information

  • Home
  • Consultations
  • Contact
  • Newsletter
  • Privacy notice
  • Sitemap

Free Consultation

A free 20 minute consultation to explain Lifestyle PrescriptionsⓇ Health Coaching, or how EFT and Matrix ReImprinting can help you.
 
Contact me

Contact

Can Susan help you?

Ask Susan how to have more confidence, clarity and calm in your life after emotional upset.

Sign up for my Invaluable EFT tapping resource sharing facts and tips


To discuss how Susan can help you please Call: 02392 410090 Text: 07917 680967 Email: Susan

Site:  www.hampshire-eft.co.uk
© Copyright Hampshire-EFT 2010-2021. All rights reserved.

  • Home
  • About Susan
  • Products
  • Blog
  • Therapies
  • Consultations
  • Events
  • Contact
  • Newsletter