Is everyone just like me?

Is everyone just like me? No, of course not: not everyone is fearful of a banana skin or being stung by a bee. So why does one person become phobic, fearful, judgemental; while another will only shrug at the same life situation?

The simple answer is – when we are under six years old our brains are like little sponges; we soak in everything going on around us.

I’ve just come back from crewing at Karl Dawson’s EFT Training Level 1 and 2 and feel a need to explain EFT at basic level once again.

So an example of a limiting belief: two people in a room see a bee or wasp

One person had a mother or father who reacted negatively to an incident with a bee or wasp when he/she was 6 years old or younger; that person will be sent a trigger message from the subconscious every time they see a bee – ‘this is dangerous, Beware!’. The other person had a parent who dealt calmly with a wasp or bee incident so he/she will simply not receive any trigger warning from the subconscious; hence- no fear. The subconscious tries to keep us safe.

Other example scenarios of misplaced beliefs:

• Scared of spiders because mum screamed
• Only feels loved or can be loved by men who drink because when a child and daddy had been drinking, that was the only time daddy said she was his little princess
• Eats comfort food because they were given e.g. chocolate when they were good; to keep them quiet and behave

I only offer suggestions but can you be awakened to the possibility that limiting patterns of behaviour can be changed? It does not need to be a big drama, little tweaks may only be required to change the mindset and release the blocked emotion.

EFT and Matrix Reimprinting can give an almost magical transformation opening a world where confidence and lovely new experiences can filter your way.

All this is within your power.

I bet that many of you will balk at the thought of another person having power and influence over you. Can you see that you hold your power and you can choose to find a way to change things about your life which no longer serve.

Can you believe that?

If you want to find out more please give me a call 02392 410090/07917 680967 or email susan@hampshire-eft.co.uk